Ladies, Get The Most Out Of Your Stunning Sex Toy
Would you love to know more about a Vibrator, but find it a teeny bit awkward asking the girls over lunch what you are supposed to do with your new little bedroom pal? We understand. That is why we step right up and hope to help you solve your dilemma!
1. Make Quality Me-Time
The idea is for this to be quality time for you, so the first thing to do is set aside an hour or so where you won’t be disturbed or discovered.
Wash your hands, and unpack your vibrator. Insert the batteries or plug it in to charge. Spread some quality sex lube on your private bits and vibrator. Be sure to get a lube that is compatible with the material of your vibrator. As a rule, silicone toys need water-based lubes.
Remember to read the enclosed instructions for your toy to get to know it. Different vibes have different settings and features, so test and play to find the magic you want.
2. Set the Mood
Once you are in your zone make yourself comfortable and bring in any other aids that might help you create the mood. Perhaps a little erotica, like pictures, games, sexy lingerie, a movie – whatever lights your fire.
3. Feel the Vibration
Switch your vibrator on and gently run it across various parts of your body to feel the sensations. If it has different settings, test how each one feels on your skin. Some parts of your body are more sensitive than others, so be ready for this. Take your time.
Your vibe may have a tapered end and a flattened one. Each gives off a different sensation, so get to know these on all chosen parts of your body.
Some women prefer robust, fast vibrations, while others only climax after a slow, gentle buildup. You’ll get to know your body over time but, initially, we suggest you simply play with the different options and note how they feel.
When you’re ready, direct the vibrator towards your lady parts. At first, you may want to keep your lingerie on or even be fully clothed to test the strength of your vibe. If the lowest setting still feels too strong, place a towel between the vibrator and your clitoris to soften the vibe.
You can also run the toy along the inside of your thighs or press it against your labia. Allow the different sensations to heat you up. Keep moving it around. If you have a G-Spot- or Rabbit Vibrator, you can use them externally as well. Tease all your erogenous zones and your vibe could soon be one of your favourite sex toys for women!
Your vibrator is meant to please you, and it will do just that if you relax and let it.
Many ladies find that some of the settings on their vibrators are great for external use but not for internal, and vice-versa—you need to test them to see which you prefer. Remember: you don’t have to have an orgasm on first use, you are still getting to know your new sexy pal, and we strongly recommend using plenty of lube on your vibrator and your bits to make things smoother for you. (Remember to ensure your lube is compatible with the material your toy is made of.)
4. Power Hour
Different vibrators have different strokes and strengths. For example: the small bullet vibrators tend to work on button- or small batteries and thus do not always give prolonged effort. Make sure you have enough power to see you through your hour.
Having said that – most vibrators are tapered and all the vibration is targeted on one area – usually your clitoris – so even battery-operated ones can still have powerful effects. And remember, what feels like a light vibration on your hand may feel quite brutal on your womanly bits. Start off with a lighter setting and notch it up if you need to. Only by experimenting will you find your perfect tempo.
5. Bring a Friend
If you have a partner, invite them along! Let them take charge of your vibe to see if they can discover a trick you haven’t. Above all, have fun. Your vibrator is meant to please you, and it will do just that if you relax and let it.
